Tadano moments being a good bf 💗

Tadano moments being a good bf 💗



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  1. Everyone talking about how Haida wasn't the right pick and Tadano was, but you guys seem to miss the point.

    Tadano was introduced to show that just because someone is great, and healthy, and a good choice for a relationship, doesn't mean that they're a good choice for you. Retsuko wants to get married. She wants that traditional relationship, and Tadano Does not. There's nothing wrong with that sort of relationship breaking off. Eventually it would have been an issue.

    It's a good lesson to learn.

  2. honestly, genuinely aggravates me how much people say that tadano was better than haida, yet fail to recognize how genuinely the relationship tadano and retsy were in wouldnt have worked, retsy WANTED a marriage and kids, those were a genuine dealbreaker for her, she has every right to leave if she so pleased, tadano is a great guy, but they both also lacked in the communication department, plus whenever anyone talks about tadano being all great, have we ever seen any other dimension to him other than the sweet ex? have we ever seen him fail, seen him angry, seen him being idk human? haida is a character with flaws, a character with genuine care for retsy (not saying tadano wasnt), someone who has continuously been by her side and helped her up, to be fair havent finished the last two seasons!! but from what i can tell, tadano might have been the perfect guy in everyone’s eyes, but haida really is the most ‘perfect’ choice for retsy, i hope tadano finds someone who shares the same goals and aspirations as he does!!!

  3. I know everyone is praising Tadano, but honestly I do love that Retsuko did not compromise on her expectations. I find that women in some media are usually expected to yield to the man's wants and needs, and to see Retsuko do the opposite even if it hurt was refreshing. Sometimes, no matter how perfect a relationship seems, if both of your wants and needs don't complement each other it's just not for you. And that's okay. 🙂

  4. Good lord the comments here just make me realize two things.

    1. They don't understand the why they were never meant to be
    2. They don't understand Japanese culture.

    Just to keep it simple, their life desires were so far apart and regardless of what either did, neither wanted to compromise. Retsuko wants to be married, have kids and live that life of commitment. Tadano is fine with being together with someone, but not to the point of marriage and ESPECIALLY not having kids. Both because it's not what he wants and his lifestyle would not work for it. Forcing one or the other to change that for the others sake would not work, cause then said person would be leading a life not of their own choice.

    As for the culture of Japan, being married is seen as an important thing. Especially when it comes to marrying into a good family/bloodline/etc. It's why parents will arrange meetings or even marriages to ensure this. And despite it being old fashion, it still equates to around 30% of actual marriages. Being together with someone without being married is seen as "wrong".

    Look at Ton, he got married. Not for per say "It was what he wanted" but more "it was what he needed". Cause deep down her knew getting married would benefit him and his life for the better. (Even if he does has moments of wondering why he deals with it) It's why the idea was made clear to Retsuko. Is being with Tadano what she wants and if it is, will it benefit her and her life for the better? Or is she only doing what Tadano wants, leading a life that isn't hers?

  5. I know a lot of people like Tadano is green flag & a really material bf but…. somehow I feel there's a time he's a bit manipulative to Retsuko in S2…

  6. I still don't forget he took away the "residence" of so many people just because of a vagary, and I know the "residents" were in that risk all of the time, but knowing how kind Tadano is, it really blowed me all away that he didn't think on the people who used that place as house.

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